Conflict

I just listened to a website about conflict. It pretty much told me about how when conflict does come in any way, you just wanna try to get out of it in the best way. It might not be easy, or fast. It will take some time and guts to do but will be worth it in the end. You just need to go talk to the person and ask why they did what they did and ask them what you did to make them angry. Ask if it hurt their feelings. Apologize for whatever you did. If they don't apologize back thats just their problem. But if they apologize back you can be friends again and the conflict was resolved. Just remember to listen to them and explain as well as you can what happened. Hopefully everything works out as you plan them to. If the conflict is not resolved right away it may be resolved later on. You just have to be patient.

Football

You might ask how is football a community? Well, on a football team you will probably have people who like each other, and dislike each other. There are a lot of different personalities, People who are queit, and also people with hot heads. There are also people who are small and big, quick and slow, tall and short. There are a lot of ways for problems to start. It doesn't help that football is a contact sport, and someone is usually getting tackled on every play. Football players should treat each other like brothers because you'll be with those guys for a year unless you play all through high school. Than you'll be with them for 4 years. I wouldn't want to have a problem with a teammate for 4 years. And it's had to work together when everyone else is fighting or everyone is mad. And if your not working together, i doubt you will win any games at all. If someone is messing around tell them to quit it or ignore them and let them get the consequences they deserve. Do not get yourself into trouble because others are. If you don't like someone you should at least stick it out for the season and not make scenes at practice. If you want to be a winning team you need to be disciplined and hard working. Work together and help people out. If someone does something wrong then help them out and don't put them down. Practice hard, and be a good teammate.